There is a well known saying of, “Don’t rock the boat.” I think that there is a song using that in the lyrics, but I’m too lazy, and not curious enough, to look it up. Despite that, I think you will be able to follow me… I hope so, anyway.
When you tell someone not to rock the boat, generally you want them to stay quiet about something so that the status quo is unaffected. You know, you see a well liked employee doing something wrong, and your coworkers tell you to ignore it because it will cause a whole lot of trouble for everybody (that is just for illustration, I’ve only experienced it through seeing in movies and shows).
Some take this line of thinking with them to church. As long as they sit quietly on the pews, maybe giving a strong “Amen” when appropriate, they can evade the possibility of getting called on to minister somehow.
Let me preface this thought with some empathy. I know how it feels to want to stay out of sight. Though my posts can be full of calls to action, I am by nature one that seeks to be unseen. If you do not realize that I was there, I did good. That may sound bad, but I have my reasons.
Though I understand the idea behind “blending in,” and put it into practice, there are times that it is absolutely wrong! I guess I need to elaborate a little so that I don’t seem like I’m doing one thing, and saying another.
Part of my job at church is to take care of the media team, which encompasses sound, video, and things of that nature. A standard that I use to see how “well” I did is if any one noticed me. See, mistakes make people aware that I am working, if things appear seamless, and people don’t think about me, I’ve done well. If they are thinking about me, they won’t be thinking about God. If they don’t have a reason to think about me, they have a clearer opportunity to focus on God. I can’t make them think about God, but I can work to reduce obstacles created by my mistakes. As far as that goes, I try not to rock the boat.
To go just a little further, I heard a quote from another media tech that I use to describe how I operate. It goes something like, “If you didn’t know I was here, I did my job well.” When I am working as a media tech, I do not need to be thanked for doing that. Actually, I don’t want to be thanked, but explaining that would be another post.
Even though I work on not being noticed, there have been times that I purposely did something that I’m sure made people think about me. Videos or songs that are not what people would expect (they were Christian, but out of the ordinary) to see at our church, much less out of me (they are starting to realize that my facade hides some craziness). The reason for those videos/songs was to kind of jar people from the usual doldrums. It wasn’t to point myself out, that was a side effect.
Where I hope to end up with this is, you can be out in front, and not drawing attention to yourself. Being a leader does not require standing on a chair, flapping your arms, and yelling for people to look at you.
Enough about that for now. In order to rock the boat, you have to move; standing up is generally the first step. Once you stand up, the teetering is enough to get small boats to rock. Of course, one person standing up won’t be enough to get a large boat, rocking, but I’ll come back to that thought.
Why is it people tell others to not rock the boat? I do know that seasickness is a good enough reason. I’d say it’s because they are afraid of being dumped in the water. If the boat rocks hard enough, people will end of going in the water. There’s a story with a similar plot line. Okay, it’s similar in that there is a boat and it’s on water.
Do you remember when Jesus walked on the water, and Peter climbed out of the boat to join Him? Peter had to be standing in order to get out of the boat. Do you wonder if the other disciples were yelling for Peter to stay in the boat? Maybe calling him crazy for trying to walk on the water. I’m sure the boat was large enough to not tip over when people stood up. It had to be if it was used for fishing. But the others still had to be wondering what Peter was doing. He was not maintaining that status quo. If he had, he would never have taken those steps.
Maybe sometimes we need to rock the boat, even dump the other passengers into the water, so that they, too, can walk with Jesus.
Note: I am not advocating running up to people and throwing water on them, or throwing them out of actual boats, or anything like that. This is meant metaphorically, that we need to leave our comfort zones here and there.