{"id":373,"date":"2012-04-30T15:03:38","date_gmt":"2012-04-30T19:33:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/grfxbox.com\/thb\/?p=373"},"modified":"2012-04-30T15:03:38","modified_gmt":"2012-04-30T19:33:38","slug":"just-forget-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/grfxbox.com\/thb\/04-30-2012\/just-forget-it\/","title":{"rendered":"Just Forget It"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Time for an unscheduled conundrum. With recent events that have been going on, I was thinking a bit about when is the right time to let someone or something go? How long do you chase someone (not like a nerdy kid trying to date a cheerleader chase) before you back off? How long are you to pursue them?<\/p>\n<p>Jesus answers Peter that we are to forgive as many times as we are asked. Not just 7 times, but 490 times. But, in what could be misconstrued as a conflicting statement, He later says that if people do not listen, to shake the dust of the town from your (the disciples&#8217; initially) sandals. Before continuing, let me say that there is no conflict here; anything that seems like one is a mistake on out part. God protects His word, and won&#8217;t let us mess it up like that. At the very basic level, the first passage is for when someone asks for forgiveness, the people mentioned in the second passage don&#8217;t care about hearing the gospel. I don&#8217;t know that anyone would try to start something on that, I just am a little paranoid.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m sort of seeking an answer here, but mainly, this post is just to let my mind wander over details. It&#8217;s obvious that, if someones asks for forgiveness, you need to grant it. I understand that. What about the people who don&#8217;t care that they hurt you? They know you&#8217;re hurt, but see no problem with what they have done. Really, it boils down to, when do you shake the dust off in that case?<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve heard the phrase, &#8220;Let them pull the TV onto their head,&#8221; and it&#8217;s cousin, &#8220;Let them hit the wall.&#8221; I know what they mean, but I still want to stand there and give warnings, like <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Burma-Shave#Roadside_billboards\">Burma-Shave signs<\/a>. I also want to be there when the TV is on their head, or they&#8217;re laying on the floor, asking how bad does it hurt. Or maybe telling them to walk it off.<\/p>\n<p>If I had to end with answer, it would have to be to step back, but don&#8217;t stop looking. Wait on them the way God waits on us when we do something stupid.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Time for an unscheduled conundrum. With recent events that have been going on, I was thinking a bit about when is the right time to let someone or something go? How long do you chase someone (not like a nerdy kid trying to date a cheerleader chase) before you back off? How long are you [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-373","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-random"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/grfxbox.com\/thb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/373","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/grfxbox.com\/thb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/grfxbox.com\/thb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/grfxbox.com\/thb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/grfxbox.com\/thb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=373"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/grfxbox.com\/thb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/373\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":387,"href":"https:\/\/grfxbox.com\/thb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/373\/revisions\/387"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/grfxbox.com\/thb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=373"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/grfxbox.com\/thb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=373"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/grfxbox.com\/thb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=373"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}